Relative pronouns are used to introduce a relative clause, (a type of dependent clause) which may be restrictive or non-restrictive. Such a clause modifies a word, phrase, or idea in the main clause.
The easy part is the relative pronoun can be a subject, an object, or a possessive pronoun in either restrictive or non-restrictive clauses. Yep, there’re two types of relative clauses, which will be explored in a later post.
It’s relative because it relates to the word its relative clause modifies.
The person who phoned me last night is my teacher.
If the relative clause is removed…
The person is my teacher.
- Bold indicates the relative pronoun
- Italic indicates the relative clause
- Bold & italic indicates the subject being modified by the relative pronoun
Since the person is my teacher doesn’t really tell you much of anything, that makes the who phoned me last night a restrictive clause. It demonstrates how important this relative clause is in explaining the main clause.
My Preference in the Who ‘Dat?? Controversy
Who is used only when referring to people (yeah, I think animals are people, too) while that can be used for people, things, and animals.
I have a strong personal preference toward using who in any situation that involves people or animals while reserving that for things — or people or animals for whom I have no respect. It’s a useful consideration when creating your characters, whether they’re meant to be viewed as “bad” or “good”.
|People that sell used cars…
Yeah, some used car salespeople are the scum of the earth.
|People who sell used cars…
I suppose a case could be made that anyone who sells used cars isn’t necessarily a good person, but they are people.
|Dogs that growl…
|Dogs who growl…
Aww, they’re so protective.
|Policemen that investigate theft…
He isn’t going to investigate too thoroughly or care.
|Policemen who investigate theft…
I feel as though this cop cares about my loss.
Yeah, it’s perception. And this is my perception on that versus who. It’s a personal choice between being respectful (in my opinion) and being easy.
Other “Who” Posts
To avoid confusions, there are other posts that explore the who versus … question, including:
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|Refers to People|
|Credit to: Apple Dictionary.com|
|Part of Grammar:|
|Rule: Relative pronouns introduce relative adjectival clauses.
Read up on the dissection of “Who versus Whom” for clarity on this confusion.
|Who||Subject or object pronoun for people||I told you about the woman who lives next door.|
|Whose||Possessive for people, animals, and things||Do you know the boy whose mother is a nurse?|
|Whom||Object pronoun for people
Colloquially, who is generally used
|I was invited by the professor whom I met at the conference.|
|Refers to Things|
|There’s a good post, “Which is That?“, on when to use that or which.|
|That||Subject or object pronoun for people, animals, and things in defining relative clauses which could also use who or which.||I don’t like the table that stands in the kitchen.
Technically, you can also say:
This version is softer, gentler:
|Which||Subject or object pronoun for animals and things.
It can also refer to a whole sentence.
|Do you see the cat which is lying on the roof?
He couldn’t read which surprised me.
C’mon, get it out of your system, bitch, whine, moan…which words are your pet peeves?