Word Confusion: Wanton versus Wonton

Posted March 10, 2016 by Kathy Davie in Author Resources, Self-Editing, Word Confusions, Writing

I have a hard time imagining a wonton woman. I don’t really understand why someone would want to fuss with a wonton wrapper to make it look like a woman. It certainly didn’t fit the context of what I was reading. I suppose the writer may have meant a woman who makes wontons. Or maybe that was her title in the kitchen . . .? Nah . . . No, wait. It’s a costume . . . yeah, that’s it.

It’s much more common to use the simple form of wanton to indicate a loose, licentious woman of low morals.

As for using wanton as a verb . . . This was a first for me. And it certainly sounds and feels awkward!

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Wanton Wonton

Brunette lying on black leather chair and wearing sexy black lingerie
Sexy Model in Black Lingerie by shanphotografi is in the public domain, via PxHere.

She’s a wanton woman.

A bowl of wonton soup
Wonton Noodle Soup, Boston, by mooogmonster from unknown (Flickr) is under the CC BY 2.0 license, via Wikimedia Commons.

Just looking at this picture makes me hungry for wonton soup! Hmmm, does that make me a wanton woman?
Part of Grammar:
Adjective; Noun; Verb, intransitive & transitive

Plural for the noun: wantons
Gerund: wantoning

Third person present verb: wantons
Past tense or past participle: wantoned
Present participle: wantoning

Noun

Plural: wontons, won tons

Alternative spelling: won ton

Adjective:
[Of a cruel or violent action] Deliberate and unprovoked

  • Uncalled-for
  • Headstrong
  • Willful

Without regard for what is right, just, humane, etc.

  • Careless
  • Reckless

[Especially of a woman] Sexually immodest, promiscuous, lawless, or unrestrained

  • Loose
  • Lascivious
  • Lewd

Dissolute, licentious, or immoral

[Literary]:

  • Growing profusely
  • Luxuriant
  • Lively
  • Playful

Extravagantly or excessively luxurious, as a person, manner of living, or style

Noun:
[Archaic] A sexually immodest or promiscuous woman

Verb, intransitive:
To behave in a wanton manner

  • Behave in a sexually immodest or promiscuous way
  • Become wanton

[Archaic or literary] Play

[Archaic or literary] Frolic

Verb, transitive:
[Often followed by away] To squander, especially in pleasure

  • To squander away one’s inheritance
[In Chinese cooking] A small dumpling or roll with a savory filling, often of minced pork, usually eaten boiled in soup
Examples:
Adjective:
It was sheer wanton vandalism.

‘Tis where the wanton ivy twines that thou shalt find thy love.

There was a wanton fawn in the backyard.

Wanton breezes wafted erratic moments of coolness.

A wanton brook burbled happily down the slight incline.

It was a wanton attack

I’ve never seen such wanton cruelty

Why jeopardize your career in such a wanton way?

Many terrorists are wanton attackers of religious convictions.

“She exhibits such wanton behavior,” Miss Eliza whispered.

Noun:
That Mabel is a wanton.

She’d behaved like a wanton.

Little is lacking for our spirits to become wanton” (Nietzsche).

Verb, intransitive:
She becomes so wanton when she drinks.

They sat gazing at the white-flecked pure blue sea and the various gulls that wantoned in the wake.

The sea breeze wantoned among the quivering leaves of the chestnut tree.

They were women who have wantoned with suitors.

Verb, transitive:
He wantons his inheritance.

She wantons away her youth.

They wantoned their money away.

I love wonton soup.

Don’t forget to order those fried won tons that I like.

Wontons make a good appetizer.

Derivatives:
Adjective: unwanton
Adverb: wantonly
Noun: wantonness
History of the Word:
Middle English wantowen meaning rebellious, lacking discipline, from wan- (badly) + Old English togen (trained). From Chinese, a Cantonese dialect: wān tān

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Resources for Wanton versus Wonton

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Apple Dictionary.com

Dictionary.com: wanton

Nietzsche, Friedrich. Thus Spake Zarathustra: A Book For All And None. Grapevine, 2019. EBook. Originally published 1883. <https://amzn.to/3VpG8r6>.

Oxford Dictionaries: wanton

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Pinterest Photo Credits

Woman Eating Croissant by Alberto Varela is under the CC BY 2.0 license and Wonton originally by Oldies~commonwiki is under the CC BY-SA 3.0 license. Both are via Wikimedia Commons.

Revised as of 21 Apr 2024
By: Kathy Davie