Over at Heroes and Heartbreakers, they’ve posted a blog by Sarah Anderson on what terms are used, hated, abused, or just downright turn you off when it comes to referring to the vagina [no longer available from Heroes and Heartbreakers as of 21 Apr 2018].
You might like to check out Sarah Anderson’s post on “A Penis by Any Other Name…” [no longer available from Heroes and Heartbreakers as of 21 Apr 2018] as well.
You writers who are working on your own sex scenes, might want to take a look…at the least you’ll laugh your ass off!