Word Confusion: Facetious versus Fastidious

Posted November 12, 2024 by kddidit in Author Resources, Self-Editing, Word Confusions, Writing

This word confusion facetious vs fastidious rose from a chat session with a couple of friends as we reminisced about school.

Facetious is usually a flippant, inappropriate humor.

Fastidious can be summed up as picky.

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Facetious Fastidious

The lower half of a window display showing a woman's calves in capris and flip-flops on the lower right with a huge sign stating that there will be no trespassing. Violators will be shot. Survivors will be shot again.
With Americans, It’s Hard to Tell by Kara Babcock is under the CC BY 2.0 license, via Flickr.

I’m hoping this is facetious!

A black-and-white cat licking its paw.
Cats are So Fastidious by Amanda Hatfield is under the CC BY 2.0 license, via Flickr.
Part of Grammar:
Adjective Adjective
Adjective:
Treating serious issues with deliberately inappropriate humor

  • Flippant
  • Amusing
  • Humorous
  • Frivolous

Characterized by levity of attitude and love of joking

Not meant to be taken seriously or literally

Adjective:
Very attentive to and concerned about accuracy and detail

  • Very concerned about matters of cleanliness

Difficult to please

  • Exacting

Excessively scrupulous or sensitive, as in taste, propriety, or neatness

[Microbiology] Having complex nutritional requirements

Examples:
Adjective:
Don’t be facetious.

Are you going to listen or just make facetious remarks?

She’s always making facetious remarks.

He is such a facetious person!

I was only being facetious.

Adjective:
He chooses his words with fastidious care.

The child seemed fastidious about getting her fingers sticky or dirty.

He was a fastidious scholar.

She insists on fastidious research.

“The club is also becoming far more fastidious about what constitutes a breed standard.” – Janet Burroway

“He was a fastidious man who hated to dirty his hands, in particular with food.” – Michael Chabon

“Fastidious organisms require growth-supporting chemicals, enrichments, vitamins, or blood, which are not present in chemically defined media, that’s why they grow poorly” (Zarecki).

Derivatives:
Adverb: facetiously
Noun: facetiousness
Adverb: fastidiously
Noun: fastidiousness
History of the Word:
Late 16th century, in the general sense of witty, amusing, from the French facétieux, from facétie, which is from the Latin facetia meaning jest, from facetus meaning witty. Late Middle English from the Latin fastidiosus, from fastidium meaning loathing. The word originally meant disagreeable, later disgusted.

The current senses date from the 17th century.

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Apple Dictionary.com

Dictionary.com: facetious,

The Free Dictionary: facetious, fastidious.

Lexico.com: facetious

Zarecki, R, Oberhardt, M.A., Reshef, L, Gophna, U, and Ruppin, E. “A Novel Nutritional Predictor Links Microbial Fastidiousness with Lowered Ubiquity, Growth Rate, and Cooperativeness.” PLoS Computational Biology, 10(7), e1003726. 17 July 2014. Courtesy of “Fastidious Definition.” Biology Online. Last updated 11 June 2022. Accessed 9 Nov 2024. DOI: https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pcbi.1003726. <https://www.biologyonline.com/dictionary/fastidious>. Article.

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