Word Confusion: Alibi versus Excuse

Posted June 11, 2018 by Kathy Davie in Author Resources, Self-Editing, Word Confusions, Writing

Revised as of 11 April 2021

I got to wondering about the difference between alibi and excuse. There had to be one, but what as the pivotal difference?

It turns out that I’ve using excuses for years. Haven’t needed an alibi…yet.

An alibi involves being elsewhere to prove any innocence and is primarily (technically) a legal usage. Naturally, this being English, using alibi (in the noun sense) to mean excuse began to be used informally in the U.S. in the twentieth century. It’s considered acceptable in standard English. As a verb, only use alibi informally.

An excuse is a defense, a request to forgive or let off the hook, to justify one’s behavior on the “guilty” party’s part while the person being offered the excuse would forgive, absolve, exempt, or overlook the person excusing themselves.

Word Confusions…

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Alibi Excuse
Credit to: Apple Dictionary.com; Dictionary.com: alibi and excuse

A man lying on a narrow street with houses in the background, as a man in shirtsleeves points a gun at him

Goran Jelisić Committing Murder is a photograph provided courtesy of the International Criminal Tribunal for the former Yugoslavia (ICTY), via Wikimedia Commons.

When he’s caught in the act, there ain’t no alibi gonna help him.


Old photograph of two girls with big bows in their hair and below the knee dresses with aprons and high-top boots standingon either side of a young man in short pants, black knee-his and books sitting in a wicker chair and holding a cat.

“I can’t get up, I’ve got the cat on my lap”, circa 1910, by pellethepoet is under the CC BY 2.0 license, via Flickr.

That’s as good an excuse as any…

Part of Grammar:
Noun 1; Verb, intransitive & transitive

Plural for the noun and third person present verb: alibis
Past tense or past participle: alibied
Gerund or present participle: alibiing

Noun; Verb, transitive

Plural for the noun and third person present verb: excuses
Past tense or past participle: excused
Gerund or present participle: excusing

Noun:
[Law] A claim or piece of evidence that one was elsewhere when an act, typically a criminal one, is alleged to have taken place

  • The evidence given to prove this
  • [Informal] An excuse or pretext, especially to avoid blame

A person used as one’s excuse

Verb, intransitive:
[Informal] Make excuses

Offer a defense

Verb, transitive:
[Informal] Offer an excuse or defense for someone, especially by providing an account of their whereabouts at the time of an alleged act

To make or find (one’s way) by using alibis

Noun:
A reason or explanation put forward to defend or justify a fault or offense

  • A reason put forward to conceal the real reason for an action
  • A pretext

[Informal; an excuse for] A poor or inadequate example of

Verb, transitive:
Attempt to lessen the blame attaching to a fault or offense

  • Seek to defend or justify
  • Forgive (someone) for a fault or offense
  • Overlook or forgive a fault or offense
  • [Of a fact or circumstance] Serve in mitigation of a person or act

Release (someone) from a duty or requirement

  • [Used in polite formulas] Allow someone to leave a room or gathering
  • [excuse oneself] Say politely that one is leaving
  • [Used especially by school pupils; be excused] Be allowed to leave the room, especially to go to the bathroom or the table

To offer an apology for

  • Seek to remove the blame of

To serve as an apology or justification for

  • Justify

To refrain from exacting

  • Remit
  • Dispense with
Examples:
Noun:
She has an alibi for the whole of yesterday evening.

His whole defense hinges on his alibi.

It’s a catch-all alibi for failure and inadequacy.

My sick grandmother was my alibi for missing school.

Verb, intransitive:
Not once do I recall him whining or alibiing.

Do I need to alibi for being late?

He’s alibied up the ying-yang.

Verb, transitive:
Her friend agreed to alibi her.

He alibied his friend out of a fix.

Yeah, well I’m starting to wonder about the man who alibied the guy.

She alibied her guy with some provable facts.

Noun:
There can be no possible excuse for any further delay.

No one will have the excuse that they didn’t know.

When the rain started, he used it as an excuse to leave early.

Chris is a pathetic excuse for a man!

Oh, honey, just make our excuses.

Ignorance of the law is no excuse.

Verb, transitive:
Excuse me, could you repeat that?

Pardon me. Excuse me. Would you let me through?

He did nothing to hide or excuse Jacob’s cruelty.

You must excuse my sister.

Well, excuse my French…

He could be excused for feeling that he was born at the wrong time.

Please, sit down — excuse the mess.

His ability excuses most of his faults.

It will not be possible to excuse you from jury duty.

Now, if you’ll excuse us, we have to be getting along.

Please excuse us, we’re running late.

He excused his absence by saying that he was ill.

Please, may I be excused?

She is usually excused from her duties during the school holidays.

She was excused duties on Saturday.

He said he would excuse your debt, so what else is on your mind?

Derivatives:
Adjective: excusable, excusatory, excuseless, excusive, nonexcusable, self-excused, self-excusing, unexcusable, unexcusing

Adverb: excusably, excusingly, excusively, nonexcusably, unexcusably
Noun: excusableness, excusal, excuser, nonexcusableness, self-excuse
History of the Word:
Late 17th century, as an adverb in the sense of elsewhere, from the Latin, meaning elsewhere.

1 The noun use dates from the late 18th century.

Middle English, from the Old French escuser (verb), from the Latin excusare meaning to free from blame, which is from ex- (out) + causa (accusation, cause).

C’mon, get it out of your system, bitch, whine, moan…which words are your pet peeves? Also, please note that I try to be as accurate as I can, but mistakes happen or I miss something. Email me if you find errors, so I can fix them…and we’ll all benefit!

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