Word Confusion: Pairing versus Paring

Posted May 28, 2018 by Kathy Davie in Author Resources, Self-Editing, Word Confusions, Writing

Revised as of 14 April 2021

That troublesome heterograph raises its head, and OMIGOD, I couldn’t stop rolling on the floor, laughing when I came across this bit of promotional advertising…

Get it now! Pairing knife – $10.99!!

Hey, with June coming up, maybe it’s a ceremonial knife for weddings??

Word Confusions…

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Pairing Paring
Credit to: Apple Dictionary.com; Dictionary.com: pair

One beetle on top of another within the leaves

Ladybugs in Nature is in the public domain, via Pixnio.

Okay, it’s rude, but it does represent several definitions of pairing, lol.


Close-up of hands peeling a potato with a potato peeler

Peeling Potatoes by kalhh is under the Pixabay License, via Pixabay.

After she pared this potato, there were lots of parings in the sink.

Part of Grammar:
Root word: pair


Noun;
Verb, intransitive & transitive

Plural for the noun: pairings
Third person present verb: pairs
Past tense or past participle: paired
Gerund or present participle: pairing

Root word: pare


Combined form 1; Plural noun 2;
Verb, transitive 2

The noun is always a plural: parings
Third person present verb: pares
Past tense or past participle: pared
Gerund or present participle: paring

Noun:
As the focus is on pairing, this post will ignore pair as a noun


An arrangement or match resulting from organizing or forming people or things into pairs

  • The action of pairing things or people

Verb, intransitive:
[Usually followed by off] Join or connect to form a pair

  • [Of animals] Mate
  • [pair off, pair up] Form a couple

To form a pair or pairs

To match with or resemble another

To unite in close association with another, as in a business partnership, friendship, marriage, etc.

[Government; in a deliberative body] To form or arrange a pair

Verb, transitive:
Join, arrange, or connect to form a pair

  • [Government] Give a member of a legislative assembly another member as a pair, to allow both to absent themselves from a vote without affecting the result

To arrange or designate in pairs or groups of two

To form into a pair, as by matching, joining, etc.

  • Match
  • Couple

[Of animals] To cause to mate

Combined form:
A short-bladed kitchen knife for paring fruits and vegetables

Noun, plural:
Always parings


Thin strips that have been trimmed off from something

Verb, transitive:
Trim something by cutting away its outer edges

  • Cut off the outer skin of something
  • Reduce (something) in size, extent, quantity, or number, usually in a number of small successive stages
Examples:
Noun:
The dancers made a fine pairing.

The pairing of food and wine is an art and each enhances the taste of the other.

The step occurs very late in meiosis, well after the time of chromosome pairing.

Those two are such an illogical pairing.

Verb, intransitive:
The rooster is pairing with the hen.

Rachel is pairing up with Tommy.

I really hate pairing up socks.

Hurry, they’re pairing off for the procession.

Richardson can’t be here for the Democrats, so he’s pairing up with Smythson on the Republican side.

Verb, transitive:
He’s pairing the rooster with the hen.

I can’t believe she’s pairing up that cardigan with that skirt.

Richardson can’t be here for the Democrats, so he has a pairing agreement with Smythson on the Republican side.

She’s pairing dancers for the waltz contest.

What do you think I’m doing? I’m pairing freshly washed socks. Again.

Combined form:
Hand me the paring knife, please.

Noun, plural:
Ewww, are those fingernail parings?

In a world of magic, you should always burn your fingernail and toenail parings.

Throw those potato parings in the compost.

Verb, transitive:
Carlo is paring his thumbnails with his knife.

At this stage, you should be paring off the rind using a peeler.

We are paring costs by doing our own cleaning.

Since John and Mary retired, they’re consciously paring down and reining in their spending.

Congress is paring back benefits from social welfare programs.

Finish paring off the skin of the oranges and then mince the meat into quarters.

Derivatives:
Adjective: pairwise, unpaired, well-paired
Adverb: pairwise
Noun: pairs
Adjective: pareable, unpared
Noun: parer
History of the Word:
Middle English from the Old French paire, which is from the Latin paria meaning equal things, a neuter plural of par meaning equal.

Formerly, phrases such as a pair of gloves were expressed without of, as in a pair gloves.

  1. It was first recorded in 1585-95.
  2. Middle English from the Old French parer meaning adorn, prepare, peel, trim, from the Latin parare meaning prepare.

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Pinterest Photo Credits:

Paring, <https://visualhunt.com/f2/photo/3772013250/81d26b4510/>, by JD Hancock, <https://visualhunt.com/author/19ccd5>, is under the CC BY 2.0 license, via VisualHunt.

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