Word Confusion: Oxymoron versus Paradox

Posted July 6, 2023 by Kathy Davie in Author Resources, Self-Editing, Word Confusions, Writing

It’s very much a word confusion with oxymoron vs paradox, as both are about contradictions.

An oxymoron is all about two words that contradict each other (and not a contradictory person), i.e., lead balloon, civil war, only choice, minor crisis, less is more, etc.

A paradox can seem to be true but is not, or then again, it can be true. What a paradox!

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Oxymoron Paradox

Melbourne Refugee and asylum seeker rights rally Saturday 27 July 2013, to protest both the Rudd Labor Government new proposal for assessment and resettlement of asylum seekers in Papua New Guinea, and the Liberal Party's hard line stand to use the military to turn back the boats.

“Illegal Asylum Seeker” is an Oxymoron was a sign at the Refugee Action Protest, 27 July 2013, Melbourne, Australia, by Takver and is under the CC BY-SA 2.0 license, via Wikimedia Commons.

They make a good point — everyone does have the right to seek asylum.

A circle of arrows pointing out how the grandfather paradox works.

The Grandfather Paradox is my own work.

Part of Grammar:
Noun

Plural: oxymorons, oxymora

Noun

Plural: paradoxes

A combination of contradictory or incongruous words

Something (such as a concept) that is made up of contradictory or incongruous elements

A tenet contrary to received opinion

An argument that apparently derives self-contradictory conclusions by valid deduction from acceptable premises

  • A situation, person, or thing that combines contradictory features or qualities

[temporal paradox] A hypothetical contradiction of cause-and-effect within a timeline that results from traveling back in time

[Archaic] An opinion or statement contrary to commonly accepted opinion

True


A seemingly absurd or self-contradictory statement or proposition that when investigated or explained may prove to be well founded or true

False


A self-contradictory and false statement, especially one arising from seemingly acceptable premises and correct logical argument

A self-contradictory statement that at first seems true

Examples:
Faith unfaithful kept him falsely true.

It was a cruel kindness.

That fashionable rhetorical novelty, the humblebrag, is used too often by the candidate.

He calls himself a “bleeding-heart conservative”.

I’ll have the jumbo shrimp.

We watched the Night of the Living Dead last night.

Ooh, that is icy hot!

It was a bittersweet moment.

“Why, then, O brawling love! O loving hate!” (Shakespeare).

The enemy of my enemy is my friend.

A potentially serious conflict between quantum mechanics and the general theory of relativity is known as the information paradox.

The mingling of deciduous trees with elements of desert flora forms a fascinating ecological paradox.

Robert A. Heinlein’s time travel story “By His Bootstraps” incorporates the bootstrap paradox.

In a paradox, he has discovered that stepping back from his job has increased the rewards he gleans from it.

It’s a strange paradox that people who say you shouldn’t criticize the government criticize it as soon as they disagree with it.

“For the actors, the goal was a paradox: real emotion, produced on cue” (Pierpont).

“Again and again, he returns in his writing to the paradox of a woman who is superior to the men around her by virtue of social class though considered inferior to them on account of her gender” (Eagleton).

Less is more is a paradox often repeated in the arts and other fields.

It is a paradox of healthy grief that we must work at it while surrendering to it.

In the media the candidate was called a paradox — an unpopular populist.

I said in my alarm, Every man is a liar!

Derivatives:
Adjective: oxymoronic Adjective: paradoxal, paradoxical
Adverb: paradoxically
Noun: paradoxology
History of the Word:
Mid-17th century from the Greek oxumōron, neuter (used as a noun) of oxumōros meaning pointedly foolish, from oxus (sharp) + mōros (foolish). Mid-16th century originally denoting a statement contrary to accepted opinion, via the late Latin from the Greek paradoxon meaning contrary (opinion), neuter adjective used as a noun, from para- (distinct from) + doxa (opinion).

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Resources for Oxymoron versus Paradox

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Apple Dictionary.com

Cambridge Dictionary: paradox

“Causal Loop.” Wikipedia. 3 June 2023. Web. 3 July 2023. <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Causal_loop>.

Dictionary.com: paradox, time paradox,

Eagleton, Terry. Harper’s Magazine. Nov 2007. Web. 3 July 2023.

Merriam-Webster: oxymoron, paradox

Pierpont, Claudia Roth. “Method Man.” The New Yorker. 20 Oct. 2008. Web. 3 July 2023. <https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2008/10/27/method-man>.

Shakespeare, William. Romeo and Juliet. Originally published 1597. Digireads.com Publishing, 2015. <https://amzn.to/3NBJ6FQ>. Ebook.

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