Word Confusion: Courtesy versus Curtsey

Posted May 2, 2024 by kddidit in Author Resources, Self-Editing, Word Confusions, Writing

It was a sentence in a story I was reading — “She didn’t have the common curtsey to call the police.”

I’m guessing it was a typo, but then again . . .

To be fair, there can be a word confusion with a courtesy that can be spelled curtsey, but only if the story (or the character) is from earlier than the late 16th century.

So remember that while curtsey may have arisen from courtesy as part of being a courteous gesture, the curtsey has been a motion in which a female bends her knees with one foot in front of the other, as either a noun or an intransitive verb since the late 16th century.

Courtesy is still a noun of politeness, kindness, and or consideration.

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Courtesy Curtsey

A line-up of people with one man shaking the hand of another.
Courtesy Call is Davd994‘s own work, which is under the CC BY-SA 4.0 license, via Wikimedia Commons.

 Line art drawing of a girl curtsying.
Lady in Dress by Firkin is in the public domain, via Wikimedia Commons and courtesy of the archives of Pearson Scott Foresman.

She seems to have mastered the curtsy, by the smile on her face.
Part of Grammar:
Adjective; Noun

Plural for the noun: courtesies

Noun; Verb, intransitive

Plural for the noun: curtseys, curtsies
Gerund: curtseying, curtsying

Third person present verb: curtseys, curtsies
Past tense or past participle: curtseyed, curtsied
Present participle: curtseying, curtsying

Alternative spelling: curtsy

Adjective:
Done or performed as a matter of politeness or protocol

Offered or provided free by the management

Noun:
The showing of politeness in one’s attitude and behavior toward others

  • [Often courtesies] A polite speech or action, especially one required by convention
  • [As modifier; especially of transport] Supplied free of charge to people who are already paying for another service

Consent or agreement in spite of fact

  • Indulgence

[Archaic spelling] A curtsy

Noun:
A woman’s or girl’s formal greeting made by bending the knees with one foot in front of the other

Verb, intransitive:
Perform a curtsy

Examples:
Adjective:
The council member paid a courtesy call on the mayor.

While waiting to board the airplane, we were provided with courtesy coffee.

We paid a courtesy visit to the new neighbors.

All the reporters got courtesy tickets.

Noun:
He had been treated with a degree of courtesy not far short of deference.

We had to stand through the superficial courtesies of diplomatic exchanges.

He traveled from the hotel in a courtesy car.

He was not at the conference only by courtesy.

The photograph was courtesy of the Evening Star.

He was a “colonel” by courtesy rather than by right.

They call this pond a lake by courtesy only.

The queen replied to her courtesy with a mute gesture of salutation.

Noun:
She bobbed a curtsy to him.

You’ll need to practice your curtsey.

Helen did not even make him a curtsy.

I made him my curtsey and left him.

Verb, intransitive:
She curtsied onto the stage.

She curtsied to the queen.

Louisa made haste to curtsy before she left.

Derivatives:
Adjective: courteous
Noun: courteousness, overcourtesy, uncourtesy
History of the Word:
Middle English from the Old French cortesie meaning having manners fit for a royal court, from the Old French corteis, based on the Latin cohors meaning yard, retinue. Early 16th century in a variant of courtesy.

Both forms were used to denote the expression of respect or courtesy by a gesture, especially in phrases such as do courtesy, make courtesy, and from this arose the current use in the late 16th century.

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Dictionary.com: courtesy

The Free Dictionary: courtesy, curtsy

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Presenting Flowers to the Queen Outside Brisbane City Hall, March 1954, held by the John Oxley Library, State Library of Queensland, and is in the public domain, via Wikimedia Commons and courtesy of the Sunday Truth.

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