Word Confusion: Wary versus Weary

Posted May 25, 2021 by Kathy Davie in Author Resources, Self-Editing, Word Confusions, Writing

Revised as of
11 Jan 2023

Be wary of weary . . . in fact, be wary of anyone who’s weary. They tend to lash out.

The wary are worried, on guard against something. Think beware, aware.

The weary are exhausted . . . probably from all that wariness.

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Wary Weary

Dog lying on the ground looking up with scared eyes

Wary Dog by Ihtar is under the Pixabay License, via Pixabay.


Black-and-white photo of a bearded man, sitting exhausted on a park bench

Weary Traveller by John Brighenti is under the CC BY 2.0 license, via Flickr.

Part of Grammar:
Adjective Adjective; Verb, intransitive & transitive

Third person present verb: wearies
Past tense or past participle: wearied
Present participle: wearying

Feeling or showing caution about possible dangers or problems

Watchful

  • Being on one’s guard against danger

Arising from or characterized by caution

Adjective:
Feeling or showing tiredness, especially as a result of excessive exertion or lack of sleep

  • Reluctant to see or experience any more of
  • Tired of
  • Calling for a great amount of energy or endurance
  • Tiring and tedious

Physically or mentally exhausted by hard work, exertion, strain, etc.

  • Fatigued
  • Tired

Characterized by or causing fatigue

Impatient or dissatisfied with something (often followed by of)

Characterized by or causing impatience or dissatisfaction

  • Tedious
  • Irksome

Verb:
To make or become tired

  • Fatigue or tire

To make or grow impatient or dissatisfied with something or at having too much of something (often followed by of)

Verb, intransitive:
[weary of] Grow tired of or bored with

Verb, transitive:
Cause to become tired

Examples:
Dogs that have been mistreated often remain very wary of strangers.

She gave him a wary look.

Cellphone users should be wary of apps that track their Internet usage.

He was truly despairing, but the muted female voice was firm, but understandably wary.

Perhaps he is wary of appearing to be an apologist in the eyes of his western readers.

Mr Fisher says that with the advent of new technology teachers need to be wary.

Adjective:
He gave a long, weary sigh.

Her eyes were weary after all those hours on the computer.

A weary brain will miss important clues.

She was weary of their constant arguments.

They were war-weary Americans.

The weary journey began again.

It was a weary wait.

Verb:
The long hours of work have wearied me.

The long drive had wearied us of desert scenery.

We had quickly wearied at such witless entertainment.

Verb, intransitive:
She wearied of the sameness of her life.

Indeed, if they find themselves restrained by a new gripping torpor, they will soon weary of being part of the EU family.

While the money can be fantastic, many quickly weary of the life.

Verb, transitive:
She was wearied by her persistent cough.

They were both dirty and tired-looking, wearied by the journey.

Save for the rifles, there appeared to be no difference between exhausted captive and wearied captor.

Derivatives:
Adjective: overwary, warier, wariest
Adverb: warily
Noun: wariness
Adjective: wearier, weariest, weariless, wearying
Adverb: wearyingly
Noun: wearying
History of the Word:
Late 15th century, from the Old English wær, which is from the Germanic base of Old English warian meaning be on one’s guard, from a Germanic base meaning observe, take care + -y. Old English wērig, wǣrig, is of West Germanic origin.

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Resources for Wary versus Weary

Apple Dictionary.com

Dictionary.com: wary, weary

Lexico.com: wary, weary

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Pinterest Photo Credits:

Demilitarize the Police, Black Lives Matter, 10 November 2015, by Johnny Silvercloud is under the CC BY-SA 2.0 license, via Flickr.

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